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Initiating Divorce: What You Need to Know

  • By Admin
  • 16 Jul, 2018
Gavel and Wedding Rings in Savannah, GA
The decision to initiate a divorce is a hard one in many cases. Before you file, you need to create a plan to stay on top of the process. A divorce is a long process that is emotional and expensive, so be prepared for any problems that may arise. The following are some steps you can take as you prepare to initiate a divorce.

Learn All You Can About the Divorce Process

Take the time to educate yourself on what to expect from a divorce. Your attorney will explain the steps you need to take. If you would like to delve deeper into divorce, ask your attorney for advice on reliable books and resources you can use to further your knowledge on the subject. If you have children, be sure you are familiar with child custody and child support.

Focus on the Children's Needs

When you make the decision to divorce, your children will go through many different emotions. Sadness, anger, and confusion are very common feelings among children of divorce. Now more than ever you need to focus on their overall well-being and health. Try to minimize the impact as much as you can.

Now is the time to focus on normalcy, even during the turbulent times of divorce. Think about how you are going to talk to the kids about the divorce, why the divorce is necessary, and what will happen once the divorce is complete. Prepare yourself to answer many questions from your kids as this is a major life change.

Also, do not disparage your children's other parent in their presence. Doing so will foster negative feelings against your former spouse. This is not fair to your child's other parent and is not a healthy way to handle your frustration.

Take a Social Media Break

Your social media accounts can come back to bite you when you go through a divorce. Although you may want to vent your frustrations or emotions on your social media, you have to stop yourself so it cannot be used against you later at your divorce proceedings.

In addition, avoid adding pictures to your social media that can cause you problems later on. For instance, if you post a photo of yourself at an expensive spa and you later decide to push for spousal support, the judge may decide you do not need extra money since you can afford posh spa treatments, even if it was a gift to you from someone else. Photos are easily misconstrued.

Avoid Excess Communication With Your Spouse

When you are in the divorce process, you and your spouse will need to discuss some things, but do so in short phone calls or in meetings with your attorneys present.

You may also want to not communicate at all electronically. Messages sent via text or email stick around. If the two of you get into a heated argument via either of these platforms, it is recorded and can be used against you in court.

Assess Your Finances 

The evaluation of your finances before you file for a divorce is extremely important. Divorce is costly and has a significant impact on your financial situation. Look at all the assets you share with your spouse. Be sure to open your own bank accounts before you file for divorce as this will help protect you should your spouse decide to close you out of your shared accounts.

If you have any questions about the divorce process or if you need legal assistance, please contact the law firm of Donaldson & Bell Attorneys at Law. We can set up a free consultation with you.
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When you hear the words personal injury accident, your mind might jump automatically to car collisions and truck accidents. But slip and fall accidents are nearly as common as car accidents, and believe it or not, they can often result in similarly devastating injuries, especially if the fall causes a concussion or spinal injury.

Below, we'll help you get familiar with slip and fall accidents, including what injuries they cause and what to do if you experience a slip and fall personal injury.

1. Slip and Fall Injuries Can Be Severe

Slipping and falling might paint a comical, cartoonish image in your head, but a serious fall isn't a laughing matter. Some common slip and fall injuries include:

  • Head injuries, including concussions
  • Spinal cord injuries, including broken backs
  • Broken, sprained, or fractured bones
  • Fractured hips
Fractured hips from falls are primarily a problem for the elderly, who may have osteoporosis or other conditions that make them more prone to broken bones. However, slips and falls can happen to people of any age, and depending on where and how you fall, you could experience severe injuries regardless of how old or young you are.

Slip and fall injuries can even result in fatalities, especially if you slip and fall on the job. The Bureau of Labor Statistics reports that 11 percent of worksite fatalities for men and 5 percent of worksite fatalities for women directly resulted from slips and falls.

2. Slip and Fall Injuries Can Happen Year-Round

Slip and fall injuries are most commonly associated with winter, and for good reason — property owners who fail to clear snow and ice away from their walkways or dry up water from heavy rainstorms create very dangerous hazards for all of their patrons. However, slips and falls can also be caused by things like spilled water in the kitchen or grocery store aisle, uneven sidewalks, or trip hazards like loose extension cords.

While it's important to be on your guard during the winter season and take safety precautions like wearing boots with dependable treads, remember that just because the sun is out doesn't mean you're entirely free of potential slip and fall threats.

3. Property Owners Aren't Always Liable for Slips and Falls

Like all other types of personal injury suits, slip and fall cases rest on the victim's ability to demonstrate that another person's negligent behavior caused their injury. In the case of a slip and fall, the victim would have to prove that another person — usually a property owner — was aware of a hazard and failed to take the necessary measures to protect visitors, customers, or houseguests from that hazard.

However, the property owner likely won't be held liable for your slip and fall injury if:

  • You were trespassing at the time of the accident.
  • You ignored slip and fall signage posted around the hazardous area.
  • You were behaving dangerously when the accident occurred.
If you were obeying all rules at the time of the accident and behaving responsibly, and if the property owner was aware of the slip and fall hazard and did nothing to address it, you have a higher chance of winning your suit after a slip and fall injury.

4. A Personal Injury Lawyer Can Help

If you were injured on another person's property when you slipped and fell, get in touch with a personal injury lawyer today. Your lawyer will assess your case and use evidence like medical records, accident reports, and eyewitness accounts to show that the negligent party is liable for your accident and should cover any medical expenses.

Are you in the Savannah area? Donaldson & Bell Attorneys at Law are here to support you after your slip and fall accident. Get in touch online to schedule your initial consultation today.
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Many states, including Georgia, recognize that even though a drunk driver is mostly responsible for the accidents they cause, other parties directly contribute. Bars, clubs, restaurants and other vendors who serve alcohol can influence who they choose to serve and how much patrons drink. Social hosts for private parties can also sometimes be partially liable for accidents.

As such, there are a series of laws commonly referred to as "dram shop laws" or "social host liability laws" that help to define whether or not a business, vendor or host is liable for the injuries caused by a drunk driver. Here's what you need to know about how these laws can affect your personal injury case.
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